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Bad breath and smelly socks
I really struggled to complete my Asr prayer today! I was sandwiched between a man who would have won the smelly socks competition hands down, and another man whose breath smelled putrid. What was I to do?
The man with the bad breath kept on exhaling heavily which meant the unbearable smell emanating from within him floated silently yet violently though the air striking me like a heavyweight boxer. While every time I went for Ruku or Sajdah the rotten smell of sweaty, smelly socks reacted with the bad breath to create what can only be described as a suffocating stench! I literally held my nose and actually considered breaking my prayer!
Of course I should seek excuses for my fellow worshippers and in that spirit I should acknowledge that we are still in the 1st 10 days of Dhul Hijjah. So the man with the bad breath may have been fasting – yet, what about the use of miswak? With the smelly socks man, is it too far fetched to assume that he only has that pair of socks and no other? 70 excuses aside my ‘Asr experience, albeit lacking my normal levels of khushu (which on good days isn’t anything to be too proud about) made me reflect on the beauty and community consideration intrinsic in our divine Shari’ah.
Our Shari’ah teaches us that one’s appearance, taste, manners and character reflect ones personality. The beloved Prophet said in an authentic hadith, “If you are on your way to meet your brothers, put on a nice dress and fix your saddles so you appear distinct among people as a mole. Allah likes neither roughness nor rough manners,” (Sahih Muslim). In the footnotes to his must read Islamic Manners, the late Shaykh Abdul Fattah Abu Ghuddah commented saying, “Muslims should look distinct in their beauty, their cleanliness, their nice smell and their good looks.”
Another instructive hadith in this regard is the one reported by Sahl ibn Hanzalia and recorded by Imam Abu Dawud where the beloved (Prophet) said, “Allah is beautiful and loves beauty.”
It is perhaps these and the other similar narrations from the Prophet recorded aplenty in the books of hadith that led Imam ibn Taymiya to declare, “the beauty that Allah likes includes nice clothes”. In the Qur’an we read, “O children of Adam, wear your most beautiful clothing at every place of prayer” (7:31). The Sunnah is to always be clean wearing neat dressing and smelling good, particularly when in amongst a big congregation.
This is one of the wisdom of the Prophetic instruction to bathe on the day of Jummah. Imam Bukhari narrates a hadith on the authority of Salman al-Farisi who said the Prophet said, “Allah will forgive the sins of the past week for he who on Friday takes a bath, cleanses himself, puts on his (regular) perfume or any perfume available in the house. Then he goes out (to the Friday prayers) and does not try to separate two friends. Then he prays wherever he can and listens to the Imam.”
Shedding more light on the above hadith Shaykh Abu Ghuddah explains the above hadith, “To take a bath on Friday is specifically required, as a large number of people will be gathering at the mosques. However, if our body became dirty or we perspired heavily on a particular day, then we should take a bath at the end of the day or the next morning.” Imam Bukhari reports on the authority of Abu Hurairah that the Prophet said, “It is the duty of every Muslim to have a bath once every week to wash his head and body.”
Even though the sweetest and most fragrant smell naturally emanated from the body of the beloved Messenger so much so that his perspiration was used as Itr (perfume), there are plenty of hadith which shows that He used to apply perfume. Indeed, this is a lesson in cleanliness for the community of believers!
Anas ibn Malik narrated in a hadith recorded by Imam Tirmidhi in the Shamail that, “the Messenger of Allah used to have a Sukkah. He used to fragrance from it.” According to Shaykh Al-Islam Mawlana Muhammad Zakariyyah the Ulama (scholars) have given two meanings for the word Sukkah, “Some say it is an Itr box in which Itr is kept…some Ulama say it is a mixture of various fragrances.” It is more then food for thought that his companion and servant Anas announced that, “The Messenger never refused a gift of perfume.” In another hadith we are instructed, “He who is presented with Rayhan (a specific type of perfume) should not reject it, because it is light in weight and pleasant in odour.”
If one were to review the numerous hadith on the Miswak (tooth-stick/tooth brush) it would be abundantly clear that the Prophet used the miswak when he got up from sleep, when he used to make ablution, before offering his prayers, upon entering the house, and after eating food. In the Sunnah of our Beloved there is no room for bad breath, Aisha (his wife) narrates that the Beloved said “The miswak cleanses and purifies the mouth and pleases the Lord.”
Being conscious of bringing pleasure to those around us has been well considered by the glorious Shari’ah. It has been covered in such a comprehensive manner that simply following the sunnah of the Beloved in our lives would mean no more bad breath or smelly socks!
How correct was the polytheist who mockingly said to Salman al-Farisi, “Your Prophet has taught you everything!” Indeed he has – Sallalahu Alaihi Wa Sallam!
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about 9 months ago
Mas’sha’Allah, excellent post bro. Funny yet so true!
about 9 months ago
We thank Allah for the invention of chewing gum…
about 9 months ago
Salaam,
I was laughing at 6am in the morning, and I must say I have sympathy for you, and I have been in situations in the Masjids many times like this, unfortunately, smells you can’t remove physically, and its always handy to carry spare socks to wear after wudu!
If the Messenger [saw] made it clear about the presentation of Muslims, then its clear, we have basic hygiene work to do anyway yet its a issue for us to make a Masjid a pleasant place to be, if the place stinks, it will affect many, JazakAllah Khayran, its a minor issue, but it definately needs addresing so lets all use a Miswak and some clean socks Insha’Allah and not disturb our Brothers or Sisters Salah by stinking them out.
Wasalaam
about 9 months ago
Funny….we have all been there….ELM new carpets should have Itr sprayed on it every day!
about 9 months ago
those hadith should be applied to the one who reads them and should never be used to mock others. Maybe someone was working all day to make a living and didn’t get the chance to take off his shoes, which were ofcourse cheap quality with no ventilation because he couldn’t afford clarks, or someone ate bad quality food only because of the time and location he was in prior to prayer.
if Allah puts you between two stinky people in prayer you should make tawbah rather than coming online and complaining to creation
about 8 months ago
I don’t know if it was a fungus or what, but I had a friend whose feet stank horribly even after taking a shower. One day he said jokingingly, “Smell my feet,” and I almost gagged.
about 7 months ago
Asalaamualaikum,
To BCC or Not to BCC? That is the Question!
I empathise with your smelly plight, I cannot understand people who wash their feet for Wudhu only to put on smelly old socks! SubhanAllah!
Anyway my point is to BCC or not to BCC… When sending out emails to Islamic events or for information, I urge brothers and sisters to BCC. If you do not know how to do this then please ask someone. As a normal guy with the same raging hormones as everyone else I do not want to be invited to fitna by being presented a list of sisters email addresses. Now I’m sure that everyone is a better person than myself in this case. We should not give the potential to arouse interest where it need not be. Why invite me to a segregated event if you are presenting me contact details of all the sisters who are attending anyway. So Brothers and Sisters if you are in a team of muslim staff or sending out event information BCC.
Although any sisters that have my email address are welcome to contact me, I’m 5’11 with brow…. Just kidding but you get the point… I hope! Please spread this post far and wide and remember if you send it by email BCC: Okay take care for now. Wa Salaam…. My next post will be about Salamz and AA’s Grrr its Asalaamualaikum…
about 6 months ago
I wasnt sure if the brother in question was joking or being serious in his plea to BCC sisters email becuase he belives people will be tempted by female names/email addresses? If it is a serious email, then i do fele sorry for this brother that he feels this way, and it si his every right toe xpress his views. But i find it disturnign that as muslims, who are meant to be on the apth to God, something as minor as this cna distract us? How do we operate at work, in life, in social situatiosn if our barometer si so weak? Women are not creatures that are there to tempt you or please you, they are real human beings, your equal.
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about 6 months ago
…Of course I was joking please develop a sense of humour…Although if you do run an event please BCC anyway. Whilst you are free to express your view one should remember that we should make excuses for our brothers and sisters rather than judge. Whilst in the eyes of the law we are all equal, people are definitely not equal in there weakness. In order to not be misinterpreted I will explain briefly. As humans we have varying levels of desire and shaytaan works on our weaknesses. It is certainly not for you to judge what should or should not be fitna for an individual. Whether your fitna is food, interactions with none mahram or something else, that is your personal Jihad against the Nafs. I was simply trying to state perhaps in my dry (witty only to myself) way that we should maintain modesty even if our interaction is through an electronic medium. Perhaps I did not express that simply enough for all to comprehend.
If you consider this to not be an issue then clearly you are a CCer… In my opinion CCers should be put into stocks and have wet sponges thrown at them. I hope that humour was obvious enough to pass the test.
May Allah keep us all on the straight path. May Allah reward you with the glad tidings of Jannah for your defense of our sisters…Ameen (This part serious).